• Does your partner decide what you can or cannot do?
  • Do you feel humiliated or diminished?
  • Are you afraid or nervous?
  • Do you feel controlled and monitored?
  • Do you do things you do not like just to avoid problems?
  • Do you feel that no matter what you do it is wrong?
  • Have you been threatened or beaten?
  • Do you feel that you are losing your mind?